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How it works

A quiet promise you make to yourself.

DnS lets you say, privately and in advance: if someone knows something about my relationship, I want to hear it. Nothing is public. Nothing is searchable.

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    Join as a member. Share a few details about your relationship, just enough to match a report to the right person.
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    Someone shares what they know. Reporters identify themselves, take an honesty pledge, and describe what happened.
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    A person checks the match. Our review team confirms it before you hear anything. Then you choose: view now, view later, or never.

Built for discretion

Yours stays yours. Reporters never see your details, or even that you exist.
Verified reporters. Everyone who reports identifies themselves. No anonymous accusations.
No public database. Nobody can search DnS. Matching happens privately.
No ads, no data sales. An annual membership ($29 / year) pays for a human review team.

Two ways to take part

I want to know

Create a member profile and set what you would want to hear about.

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I know something

Share it with a verified identity and an honesty pledge. The person it concerns decides whether to read it.

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Questions?

Write to [email protected]. A person reads every message.

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